There’s one word of advice for improving your relationship and being more comfortable and confident with giving head, Ladies – p r a c t i c e!

Easy to say, right Women? Perhaps, however, not so easy to do.

What gets in the way of your pleasing your guy with some of the best blowjobs he’s ever had?

Maybe you were raised with the idea that a man’s cock is “dirty”? Truth is, if your man’s penis is kept well-washed and regularly cleaned, that part of his body (and all the surrounding parts, too) is probably cleaner than his mouth or his hands.

Perhaps you’ve heard that there are various taboos about mouth-to-cock contact. Here’s the real deal, Ladies – if you’re disease-free and he’s disease-free, you’ve got less chance of having any problems or barriers than you’d have sucking his thumb or big toe.

Or, possibly y’all think that your lover’s cock and balls are just plain funny lookin’ or unattractive or “strange”; and, you just don’t seem to be able to stop giggling or haven’t made “friends” with all that – yet.

Just because we’re talking about “private parts” here doesn’t mean you need to be squeamish about caressing and fondling your lover’s “private parts”.

Think about this for a moment or two. If your end result is to give pleasure to the one you love (or, at least, lust) – where’s the problem?

If you begin to think in these terms, start to “practice” giving him head should begin to make you more comfortable to explore and, consequently, more confident to experiment with what pleases him.

If, however, you’re still in doubt – ask. There are few ways better to know how to give him the blowjob of his life than to take his lead by asking how he likes to be touched, where he likes to be licked, how often he wants to be sucked and kissed.

As you learn what ways and how he likes you to give him better head, you can begin to improvise and surprise him with techniques for giving him great head. Nothing says you care more than sucking more soft or harder when he least expects it – taking the lead and letting him just relax and enjoy the ride. His anticipation of not knowing what you’re going to do next only heightens his sexual arousal and ultimate satisfaction.

It’s your show after that, Woman!

Granted, increasing your comfort level and, thereby, your confidence can go hand-in-hand (or, cock-in-mouth, as it were) –and, there’s no time like today to begin. Practice, practice, practice.

Ladies, listen up! If you want to improve your relationship with your man, there’s one sure way to seal that deal – learn how to give him really good head.

There are not many men who can resist the titillation of his woman slowly sliding the tip of her tongue along his shaft, using her lips to curl around the head of his hardening cock.

Just thinking about it can make some men shudder in anticipation.

It’s all ‘bout the seduction, Girls.

Begin with initiating some intimate time by sidling up to him when he might not expect it. Ever-so-slowly give him that kind of kiss you know he really likes. Already you have his attention – both heads are workin’!

Now that you have his attention, think of how you enjoy being seduced. For example, do you appreciate being touched gently or is your preference to be “taken”? Think about how he might like it. Put yourself in his shoes – as it were.

From time to time, as you make your way to your ultimate goal, feel along your fella’s body just to make certain that what you’re doing is having the desired effect.

At this point, begin to undress him with your mouth – flicking buttons, seizing his zipper with your teeth. Use your imagination! Your guy, I suggest, will be going bonkers by now – preparing for a drop dead blowjob.

Now might be a good time to slow your pace, once he’s naked; and, begin to lick him, like a lollypop. Begin wherever you want; but, now’s the time to take your time, increasing his anticipation and really let him enjoy as you kiss and lick him in places that might be “triggers” for him.

Eventually, of course, your mouth will find its’ way to his genitals. Caress his balls with you hands and/or mouth. Use your tongue to explore – from the base of his cock to the tip of his head. Swirl your lips over his groin, as you suck and pop his scrotum and penis in and out of your mouth.

Do whatever continues to drive him towards his ultimate blowjob — sometimes sucking, sometimes pumping with your hand while your mouth explores somewhere else.

No one should know how to tease and please your boyfriend, husband or lover better than you – right, Woman? Consequently, giving him the best danged blowjob by giving him the best head (ever) can, not only, improve your relationship. But, think of the turnaround when it’s your turn!