How To Give Good Head: Ask – Listen – Do – Repeat

There are as many ways to give head as there are men and women who wish to give and receive a blowjob. (I’ve often wondered about that term “blowjob” – as it’s more a matter of suck and lick, rather than “blow”).

Neverthemore, giving head begins with the mutual desire to share intimate, sensual pleasure. This might seem, somewhat silly to say – but, geewillikers, if that’s not there – who cares?

A first step to giving your boyfriend, husband and/or lover a blowjob is, simply, to ask how they want “it”. Listen – carefully. The mere act of describing and listening, intently, can be erotic and mutually arousing.

While you’re listening, ladies, you might gently caress his face, run a finger tip along his arm, chest or other body part, acknowledging his desires with a simple nod of your head and a smile.

When he has finished his description, take into consideration his stated desires. Begin to trace your mouth along his body as you make his penis tip your, eventual, goal. However, since there are three main parts to his genitalia do not forget his balls and shaft as an essential part of your blowjob.

Remembering his description, if he said he liked/might like the tip of your tongue “there”, be certain to trace that point, gently. If he mentioned he might like a bit of teeth to tease, apply just a little to see how he reacts. Even if he didn’t mention that, you might use your teeth, sparingly, to nibble and taste.

Women, always remember that your goal, in your relationship with your guy, is to enjoy each other and to give and receive mutual pleasure and joy.

Feel his reactions to the tip of your tongue as you trace around his shaft, understand his tension as you suck his balls into your mouth, listen to his sounds of stimulation as you lick around the tip of his penis.

From time to time, looking up to see his reactions can make that eye-to-eye connection that’s extraordinarily intimate and powerful, as you pop the head of his wet cock in your mouth, swirling that tip with your tongue, as you begin to take his shaft deeper into your mouth.

Beginning to suck and lick with more passion and rhythm, caressing his balls with your hands can add just that extra, gentle connection that continues to bring him closer to the brink.

When you, finally, feel he’s at his point of explosive cum, don’t pull away. There are very few men who don’t savor the sight of their woman sucking up all their cum, with (perhaps) a bit of it dribbling off their lips.

If, however, swallowing his cum is not your desire, a satisfying solution might be to, simply, pull back just a bit and let his jizz explode over your face and neck, oozing over your breasts.